About Victoria
Hello, I’m Victoria
I help adult daughters 35+ who feel guilty, responsible or anxious around difficult parents find their inner power and worth – and make and stand by more conscious choices about their time, boundaries and care, without becoming cold or stopping caring.
My story
From my own journey to guiding yours
I’m Victoria Herocten, a holistic guide for women facing difficult people – usually family – and who take too much on their shoulders.
I made the bold decision to move to Ireland, where I’ve lived for 20 years, to grow and broaden my horizons, and I embarked on a profound journey of self-discovery and holistic living. Now I am sharing my experience and wisdom with you.
I specialise in personal empowerment, holistic well-being, and breaking free from toxic relationships.
“I made the bold decision to move to Ireland… and embarked on a profound journey of self-discovery.”
Experience and publications
Co-author
The Gratitude Project
A contributor to the 2009 edition.
Founder
Awaken Happy Life blog
Since 2018, guiding thousands of readers toward a balanced, fulfilling life.
Author
Awaken Mega Happiness
My book, published in 2017.
How I work
The I Matter Method
A calm, structured process that works with four layers of you – your identity, thoughts, emotions and actions – so change happens at the root, not just on the surface.
Awaken
Notice what has shaped you
Release
Transform what no longer serves you
Align
Live what truly matters to you
From the blog
Free articles on Awaken Happy Life
Want to read a little more first? These are my latest articles on guilt, boundaries and choosing yourself.
Where would you like to start?
Take a gentle first step with the free guide, or go deeper with the I Matter Alignment masterclass.